CARLO ANCELOTTI EXCLUSIVE: Yes, they love me at Real... but lose this Champions League final and they'll all want to kill me!

Carlo Ancelotti takes a long drag on a cigarette as he considers his response to a question he clearly finds amusing.

Having reminded him that he has the opportunity to join Bob Paisley in becoming one of only two managers to have lifted the European Cup three times, I suggest he would be perfectly entitled to flaunt his success rather more than he does.

Why, for instance, does he not follow Louis van Gaal’s lead in occasionally referring to himself in the third person? Or perhaps remind the media that he too is a bit ‘special’? This, after all, will be Ancelotti’s seventh European Cup final as a player and a manager. Pretty damn special by anyone’s standards.

The manager of Real Madrid starts to laugh, and then shakes his head.

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‘No, no,’ he says. ‘I don’t like people who say “I, I, I.” It’s embarrassing. It’s not me, to speak about me. I know Bob Paisley won it three times, in ’77, ’78 and ’81, no? So it would be an honour to join him, of course, but it is not my motivation.’

So what is his motivation as he prepares for what promises to be a difficult encounter with Atletico Madrid, his neighbours and the new champions of Spain?

‘The great motivation is to be part of the history of this club,’ he says.

‘To be part of that is bigger than any personal achievement. That is the most important thing. The Champions League has given me a lot already. I have won four, as a player and a manager. But this is about the Decima; the 10th title.

‘From the first day I arrived here it was about the Decima, because for Real Madrid this cup is special. I wouldn’t call it an obsession. Just a motivation.’

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If the pressure on this softly-spoken Italian is intense, and the sheer number of journalists from television, radio and print in attendance at the official Real Madrid media day would suggest that it is, he appears to shoulder the burden with remarkable ease.

Now sitting in his office at Madrid’s Valdebebas training ground, away from the phalanx of cameras and microphones, he is the perfect host, even rustling up a round of espressos from his coffee machine.

Caffeine consumed, he returns to the subject of modesty, humility, and what seems a knack for engaging with an audience.

He conducts himself with charm, his press conference is strikingly different from the clashes Jose Mourinho would have with the media at Valdebebas. For a start there was a great deal of laughter. ‘I suppose this is my style,’ he says. ‘But, look, they will still kill me if we lose in Lisbon. There is a lot of pressure here, of course.

‘You have to pay attention to this. But you should realise there are a lot of people who loved Jose here in Madrid. He made two groups. One with him and one against him. But a lot of people liked him.

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‘He won a league title with 100 points and more than 100 goals, in his second year here. But this pressure, this is football. I know this world.

‘You win the Champions League but how long is the bonus? Three games next season? Not more. It’s why I never think too much about the success we have enjoyed.

‘Because one day you are at the top and the next you can be at the bottom.’ He is referring, presumably, to his time at Chelsea, where he was sacked by Roman Abramovich for finishing second in the Barclays Premier League only a year after securing a league and cup double at the first attempt.

‘I see Roman has changed his idea about Jose so maybe he will change his idea about me too,’ he says, now shaking with laughter. ‘You just have to love this sport. You can’t be too tired to watch, or too tired to learn, because you can change your idea about something every day.

‘Do you know how many people work here at the training ground? 50. Two teams. 25 players and 50 people, and I believe that the people have to be involved too. Everyone can share their ideas with us. They don’t have to be a soldier who simply follows orders.’

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This is Ancelotti’s philosophy. His belief in the collective. It is how he was raised in a rural corner of northern Italy and how he runs his football clubs. Paul Clement, his trusted English assistant, says his greatest quality is his ability to build ‘human relationships’.

‘He’s brilliant at that,’ says Clement, who has joined Ancelotti for a coffee. ‘He has such humility. He believes in everyone working at the same level, that we are in this together, and that together we will be more effective.’

Ancelotti credits his ‘humble  family’ for instilling the right values in him. His father, Giuseppe, was a farmer who supported a family on 10 dairy cows and a rented farm, producing Parmesan.

‘We never had to go to the supermarket,’ he says proudly. ‘Everything we produced at home. The bread, the milk, the cheese. We had chickens for the eggs. You know I was 16 before I had my first shower. I remember standing under it thinking, “what is this?”

‘But we were comfortable, my sister and I, living with my parents and my grandparents.’

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Even as a member of the all-conquering Milan team who remain the last to successfully defend the European Cup — in 1990 — he never lost sight of his roots and his principles. ‘I didn’t have a Ferrari or anything like that,’ he says. ‘I drove an Opel.’

Today he is in control of something rather more glamorous, of course: a Real Madrid team boasting a forward line to rival any in the world.

He adores Cristiano Ronaldo, and not just for his professionalism. He also appreciates the way he has taken Gareth Bale under his wing. ‘Small things,’ he says. ‘In the tunnel before the players come out; in the huddle just before a game. It will be a quiet word, a squeeze of the shoulder. And he and Bale and Benzema work for each other. Very unselfish.

‘I like Ronaldo a lot. Now if he’s professional and doesn’t score goals, I don’t know if I like him the same. But he scores in almost every game — 51 goals in 50 games I think — so I like him very much! Gareth has been a great signing for us. And I like him too. So humble. But I can also see why Alex Ferguson said Ronaldo was “the best”.’

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The best he has worked with? ‘Oh,’ he says, shaking his head again. ‘Impossible. I once tried to pick an 11 from the players I have worked with. Not difficult — impossible.’

Encouraged to go through them, he does his best. ‘OK,’ he says: ‘Goalkeepers: Casillas, Diego Lopez, Cech, Buffon, Van der Sar. Unbelievable.

‘Left back. Maldini, Ashley Cole, Marcelo, Maxwell.

‘Central backs. I have three great ones here but then there is Terry, Nesta, Stam, Thuram, Cannavaro, Thiago Silva. The lists goes on.

‘Right backs. Cafu, Ivanovic. Central midfielders. Pirlo, Lampard,  Xabi Alonso, he is  fantastic. I had  Deschamps, Gattuso. I’m telling you, impossible. Look at the players I have here too.

‘Look at the strikers. Shevchenko, Kaka, Inzaghi, Ibrahimovic, Del Piero, Ronaldo. Both Ronaldos! Drogba, Anelka, Torres, Crespo, Zola.

‘Attacking midfielders. Ronaldinho, Rivaldo, Rui Costa, Bale. I forgot Zidane! 

‘He coaches here with me now. I forgot so many. So many great players here too. I can’t remember. How can you pick a team from them?’

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He has a point, and agrees that he has had some high-profile employers too. For many it is a list that would be the stuff of nightmares. As well as Abramovich, Silvio Berlusconi and current president, Florentino Perez.

‘Don’t forget Agnelli at Juventus,’ he says. ‘Mr Fiat. And Mr Parmalat at Parma. And the Emir of Qatar at Paris Saint-Germain.

‘But if there is a difference between the president here, Berlusconi and the others, it is that Perez and Berlusconi grew up supporters of their clubs. They are more supportive.

‘With Florentino I have a good relationship. He first tried to bring me here in 2006, when I was in Milan. The second time I chose Chelsea, but that was because when I spoke with Florentino at that time he was not the president. So I chose England.’ 

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There have been suggestions that Manchester United tried to lure him to Old Trafford, that Ferguson approached him before opting for David Moyes last year.

‘No, no,’ he says. ‘Not true. When I decided to leave PSG I had the opportunity to come here. I didn’t want to stay at PSG.

‘When I went there it was supposed to be about creating something. But after one year that had changed and it was just about the next result.

‘When we went out in the quarter-finals of the Champions League, they started to complain. I decided it was time to go.’

It has proved a good decision. A first La Liga title might have eluded him, but Real won the Copa del Rey with some style and he now is preparing for that seventh European Cup final. ‘The first one was in ’84,’ he says. ‘Roma versus Liverpool. I didn’t play because I was injured but I prepared for the final with the team. I was 25. It was the first final for Roma, and the final was in Rome. Grobbelaar… 

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‘We had 15 days to prepare for that final and we went into the mountains in Italy, in the north, and we found terrible weather.

‘Cold, rain, every day. For seven days! And when we came back, three days before the final in Rome, it was so hot. And the players had a lot of cramps.

‘It was the worst preparation for a final in history.

‘I played the final in ’89 and ’90 with Milan and we won. Then as a manager with Milan, in 2003, 2005 and 2007. The 2005 final (losing to Liverpool on penalties after leading 3-0 at half-time) was the craziest. That first half was among the best performances one of my teams has produced.

‘Unbelievable. Even in the second half, after it went to 3-3, we played really well. I joke with Alonso sometimes. I say, “hey, you have a cup that’s mine”.’ 

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The current campaign is most memorable for the demolition of Pep Guardiola’s Bayern Munich. They were widely considered to be the finest in Europe and had also won the Bundesliga at a stroll.

But Madrid beat them 5-0 on aggregate, four of those goals coming in an extraordinary second leg at the Allianz Arena.

‘Why? I don’t know why,’ says Ancelotti modestly. ‘We had a fantastic motivation. Tactics  were good. The key was that we were able to defend with Bale, with Ronaldo, with Di Maria, with Modric. Players with a lot of quality, with a lot of skills.

‘We also had the advantage of playing German teams in the previous two rounds. In the last 16 against Schalke, in the  quarter-finals against Borussia Dortmund and then in the semis against Bayern.

‘That said, Bayern are not playing German football. It is not the style of German football. They play the style and philosophy of Guardiola, of Barcelona. They are totally  different from the style of last year under Jupp Heynckes.

‘The style last year was more direct, more counter-attack.

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‘They won against Barcelona more or less playing that way, using counter-attack, 4-0 and  3-0 in the semi-final. But that is not to say it was easier for us this year. To win the ball you have to work very hard.’

Ancelotti knows Real will have to work hard to conquer Diego Simeone’s brilliantly organised Atletico side. ‘They are very strong,’ he says. ‘We had problems against them in the league. We lost at home. We drew there. But we don’t have to think too much about the opponent.

‘We know them very well. Sure, they know us too.’

Is the likely absence of Diego Costa encouraging? ‘Costa is a good player,’ he says. ‘Really dangerous. Costa, he goes to Chelsea, no? He’s a very good player, and he would suit the Chelsea style, the counter-attack. But we will see. It will be a good game. I am excited.’

He pauses to light another cigarette.

‘Right now, I don’t feel the pressure,’ he says. ‘I am calm.’